Valentine’s Day Neck Massage

The neck is one of the most sensitive erogenous zones for many of us, so it makes sense to give it some attention. In fact, for centuries in Asia the nape of a woman’s neck has been cherished by men. The Japanese kimono, one of the world’s most recognizable traditional garments, is designed so that the loose collar gives a glimpse of a woman’s neck, which is an erotic symbol in Japan.

How Japanese women wear the collar is a symbol of their marital status.  Ironically, married women sometimes expose more neck than younger, single women, who are supposed to appear decent.

How to stimulate the neck area? 

The reflex area to the neck is located at the base of the big toe on both feet, along the neckline.

1. Take one foot in your hands and place your thumbs at the base of the big toe. Press your thumbs alternately using firm but gentle pressure in this area, moving from the crease to just below the crease, onto the ball of the foot.
2. Next, use your thumbs to alternately “V-Slide” in this area. Alternate your thumbs as they move outward and upward, at about a 45° angle, forming a “V”. Do this for 15-20 seconds.
3. You can then move to another area of the foot, or repeat this technique on the other foot.

How can reflexology help?

The neck reflex points are associated with the fifth chakra, the Throat chakra, which is related to communication, self-expression and creativity. Associated with the element of sound, the Throat chakra rules the faculty of speech. It’s also associated with clairaudience (hearing spiritual voices), and with our reception of sounds, words, music, tastes, and smells. The Throat chakra also works in tandem with the heart chakra in the front of the body to activate happiness, peace, love, and joy.

When the Throat chakra is open, there is feeling of freedom and a deep sense of the meaning of life and the universe—an awareness that one’s will is in harmony with Divine will. When this center is open and functioning well, you’re able to embrace others with love and warmth. It’s easy to express yourself and your speech is clear and smooth. You are secure in your personal expression so you can make decisions and pursue your goals in life with little hesitation.

Reflexology can help this chakra by strengthening your ability to listen to your inner voice and to express your true feelings and thoughts.  In doing this, you’ll be able to open up and communicate better with your partner.  This leads to better understanding and, consequently, more intimacy.  Which is what we all want, right?